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š How to get people to pay $43 for $2 hand soap...
Back in 1987, newbie founder Dennis Paphitis wasnāt trying to build a luxury brand. He was just a dude - a Melbourne hairdresser who thought most beauty products smelled like lies and old lady perfume (whichā¦heās not wrong).
So he did something about it:
He made his own line of soap.
He gave the formulas unforgettable names.
He put them in plain apothecary bottles.
And slapped some random quotes from philosophers on the labels.
The guy had basically no plan to market these. He didnāt know any celebrities. He wasnāt friends with any TikTokers with that āclean girlā aesthetic. He didnāt even know how to build a GTM plan.
What he did have was a good product with a good design, and a visual brand that whispered: if you knowā¦you know.
And oddly enough, when he launched his productā¦it worked. People bought and bought and bought until it sold out and his baby brand (now affectionately known as āAesopā) had no choice but to become a global billion dollar brand.
Today, Aesop sells $43 hand soap to people all over the world, and made $2.7 billion in revenue at its peak in 2022.
Which is absolutely bonkers because Aesopā¦sells freaking soap.
(Donāt ever think you canāt create a billion dollar business from simple products, because Aesop says you can.)
So how does a minimalist brand with no influencer strategy, no obvious status flex, and no product innovation end up becoming a global flex?
One word: āsignaling.ā
Once you understand how signaling works, you can bake the same success Aesop had into any productā¦whether you sell vitamins, skincare, or tactical socks.
Letās break down what a āsignalā is, and how they get built.
š§ What Is Signaling? (And Why It Makes or Breaks Perceived Value)
Signaling is a simple concept:
Signal = an external behavior, selection, or choice that exists only to communicate internal identity to people around you.
A āsignalā is basically the equivalent of buying something so that other people know what youāre about. You buy a product not just for what it does, but for what it says about you. This signal then gets displayed to others (and to yourself) as a badge of honor.
Brands everywhere are built to provide these āsignalsā:
A Patagonia jacket signals values.
A Rimowa suitcase signals taste.
A Stanley cup signals cultural fluency.
Aesop soap signals restraint + aesthetic IQ.
Your entire outfit, home, car, career, and/or lifestyle signals how you want to be read. And thatās the key:
People donāt buy products. They buy perception.
Your job as a marketer isnāt to over-describe your value to people in the hopes theyāll eventually just give up and be convinced. š Itās to engineer how ownership feelsāand what it silently communicates identity.
𧬠The 3 Types of Signals Every Brand Can Manufacture
Letās make one thing clear hereā¦to build a brand that signals, you donāt need to be expensive. You donāt need celebrity endorsements. And you definitely donāt need to fake being āaspirational.ā
You need to build intentional signal layersā¦the psychological cues that help customers say:
āThis is who I amā
āThis is what I getā
āThis is what I stand forā
Hereās three signals you can easily implement into any brand:
1. š£ The Identity Signal: āThis says something about me.ā
This is the most powerful (and most overlooked) type of signal because it actively aligns with the person your customer already is (Aesop is great at this one).
If youāre selling hand soap using an Identity Signal, you donāt need to do much of anything except for curate and incredibly strong message, and double/triple down on communicating that message consistently over time.
Your message could say basically anything. Fromā¦
āIām the kind of person who appreciates details other people miss.ā
Toā¦
āIām organized. I take care of myself. I donāt microwave chaos.ā
What your message is doesnāt matter, as long as youāre consistently communicating it everywhere.
TACTICS TO BUILD IT:
Write copy that mirrors self-talk. Not āthis product is greatāābut āyouāve always been the person who...ā
Use customer UGC that shows identity, not features: bags in airports, bottles on vanities, planners on clean desks
Make the product an extension of a belief (āThis supports the version of me I already believe in.ā)
š§ Why it works: Humans crave consistency between self-image and behavior. If your product helps people reinforce who they are (or want to be), they cling to it.
2. š§ The Intelligence Signal: āOnly smart people get it.ā
This is the āif you know, you knowā signal (this is the signal Apple often uses.)
Some brands signal taste not by being flashy, but by being subtle, quiet, and earned.
They whisper instead of shoutā¦and thatās exactly what makes them powerful.
If you want to build an Intelligence Signal, go and study:
Unbranded DTC goods with signature colors or shapes
Niche wellness brands using deadpan humor and ingredient-led design
High-end personal tech with no visible logo, but immediately recognizable form factor
TACTICS TO BUILD IT:
Remove overt sales language. Assume the buyer is smart. Let them discover.
Use distinctive design cuesācolors, packaging, formatsāthat become recognizable only after ownership.
Let your community spread the signal through insider language, rituals, or āclub-likeā behavior.
š§ Why it works: This taps into ācostly signalingā and identity-proving behavior. People want others to notice that they āget it,ā without having to say it.
3. š The Context Signal: āIāve seen this in cool places.ā
This is the social validation Signal, and itās incredibly powerful (Notion often signals this way.)
(NOTE: A lot of brands think they have this one nailed, but too often over-project their own importance, so be careful with this one. š Even if the product is great, the company it keeps decides whether it feels legit.)
The brands that Context Signal correctly are usually the brands that grow just from being featured in the background of influencer videos, sitting on design blogs, or quietly sitting on the counters of āthoseā apartments.
If your product shows up in the right contexts, it becomes legible as a signal.
TACTICS TO BUILD IT:
Show your product in aspirational use environments (clean kitchen counters, creative studios, cozy reading nooks).
Partner with tastemakers who donāt do traditional promosājust use it in their real lives.
Curate āas seen in the wildā roundups to re-contextualize your product in buyer-friendly ecosystems.
š§ Why it works: People trust pattern recognition. If they repeatedly see your product in trusted, tasteful places, they assign status to it by association.
š How Signaling Compounds Over Time
Hereās the beautiful part:
Once a product starts signaling successfully, it creates a feedback loop:
Smart buyers feel good for choosing it
Others notice and copy them
The product gains social capital
That capital drives more demand
The price can go upābecause the perceived meaning goes up
Thatās how you go from āsoapā to $43 hand wash.
From āvitaminā to $90-a-month ritual.
From āprotein coffeeā to evidence of being a functional adult.
Not because the product changed.
But because the signal became valuable.
TLDR
You canāt make your brand aspirational by telling people itās aspirational.
But you can make it aspirational by engineering signals that help people say something about themselves.
And if you want to charge more, convert faster, and stand out without screamingā
Signal-building is your most powerful lever.
This is what we build inside Tether Lab:
Brands that donāt just talk to customersā¦
They let customers talk through them.
If you want to learn how to build signals around your brand,ā Step Inside the Lab ā Walk away with a sharper brand, smarter signals, and more sales to show for it.
š¦ Sarah

šØ Trend Alert: +10,000% YOY Surge ā Sephora is the new self-soothing ritual.
Searches for āSephora skincare productsā just exploded on Pinterest.
Not āserums.ā
Not āanti-aging.ā
Not even ābest skincare routines.ā
Just... Sephora skincare products.
Letās unpack what this means (and how to ride it):

š The Signal:
Pinterest searches for āSephora skincare productsā are up over 10,000% year-over-year, spiking across Gen Z and younger Millennials. The phrase itself isnāt about the category. Itās about the context.
People arenāt looking for skincare. Theyāre looking for a brand that feels like control in a bottle.

š§ The Diagnosis:
This isnāt about skin. Itās about certainty.
What this trend is actually saying:
ā āI trust Sephora to curate what I canāt.ā
ā āIām not just buying productsāIām buying potential.ā
ā āSkincare = control = calm.ā

Call it prestige placebo. Itās working.
š How to capitalize on it:
š§“ Skincare & Beauty Brands
Borrow Sephoraās halo. Even if youāre not in their store, use the language your buyers are already searching:
ā āSephora-style routineā
ā āSkincare like the pros stockā
ā āAs seen in those Sephora haulsā
Bonus: Curate āstarter stacksā that mimic the shelfie aestheticābundle, badge, repeat.
šļø DTC Wellness Brands
This is the moment to lean into aspirational systems.
Donāt sell products. Sell rituals with names like:
ā āThe Reset Routineā
ā āYour 3-Step Calm Kitā
ā āConfidence in 5 Minutes or Lessā
Use polished, touchable visuals. Yes, it should look like a $72 moisturizerāeven if itās $14.
š§ Creative Strategists
Tap into visual legitimacy.
Consumers trust what feels put-together. That means elevated packaging, stackable kits, and UGC that looks like it belongs on a bathroom counter in a Get Ready With Me video.
Prompt idea:
ā āThis is what $30 of control looks like.ā
šø UGC Creators
This is Sephora-core. Embrace it.
Try these formats:
ā āWhat Iād rebuy with $100 at Sephoraā
ā āThe products that feel expensive, but arenātā
ā āPOV: You just needed to feel in charge of something today.ā
Every purchase is a vote for identity. Make the vote feel chic.
And if this whole thing makes you want to rearrange your skincare drawer and pretend itāll solve your life⦠same.
Until next week,
š¦ DEX
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